1. What
is coaching?
(The official definition from
the International Coach Federation): Professional Coaching is an
ongoing partnership that helps clients produce fulfilling results in their
personal and professional lives.
Through the process of coaching, clients deepen their learning, improve
their performance, and enhance their quality of life. In each meeting,
the client chooses the focus of conversation, while the coach listens
and contributes observations and questions. This interaction creates clarity
and moves the client into action. Coaching accelerates the client's progress
by providing greater focus and awareness of choice. Coaching concentrates
on where clients are today and what they are willing to do to get where
they want to be tomorrow.
2. Where
did coaching start?
Coaching has been around as
long as people have been around.
As an industry, coaching's
roots go back at least to the early 80's. The self-discovery movement
of the 60's and 70's was showing up in office suites and board rooms.
Consultants started asking clients about commitment and personal vision.
People became more health conscious. They still wanted to be professionally
effective and successful, but they wanted balance and fulfillment too.
Here and there, consultants from various specialties broadened their practices.
They took on a more holistic view of their clients. Some began to call
what they did coaching.
The first "coaching schools"
got started in the early-to-mid 90's. Coaching started getting press and
notice around 1998-99 and became trendy a the turn of the century.
3. Why
does it work? Coaching works because...
- People
naturally move towards their goals, especially the ones they really
want. Coaching starts by clarifying what the client really wants.
-
Coaches are trained to recognize both their client's natural talents
and their self-defeating patterns. That input greatly accelerates development
and performance.
- Coaches
tell it like it is without blame or judgment. There's nothing like it
to enhance one's performance and life!
4. Who
hires coaches?
The individuals seeking coaching
tend to have a history of success, and are very committed to some current
goal. They have heard their call.
5. Who
works best with a coach?
Fundamentally,
the coachable person has three qualities:
- They have a goal they're
committed to achieving.
- They're frustrated by
something that is getting in the way of their success.
- They're open to getting
input from another person.
6. What
if I'm not too clear about my goal?
No problem. You do not need
to be completely clear about what you want and you don't need to have
any idea of how you'll get it. Much of the value of coaching comes from
the clarity coaching provides.
7. Do
coaches just work on business issues?
My practice has always centered
around business, professional and career objectives. Other coaches focus
more on personal issues. Despite my business focus, all coaching is always
at least partially personal in focus. We set our target on your objective,
but our conversations will go wherever they need to go to reach that objective.
That's really what makes coaching special.
8. How is it different from therapy?
One answer is that therapy
is about understanding why you are the way you are while coaching is about
taking action to be the most that you can be.
The therapist's traditional role has him/her supporting their client's
mental health. That assumed the individual was not completely well and
needed therapy. The coach assumes the client is healthy, whole and able
to live their life successfully.
9. Why
do people hire coaches?
If the purpose of coaching
is to bring out your best in support of your goals, is there a type of
goal that best suits coaching? Yes. Coaching is the most useful when you're
taking on big stuff. Imagine that there are three levels of improvement,
change or growth.
- The simplest change is
to do what you're already doing differently (better or faster).
- The next level involves
fundamentally reshaping yourself within your current work by doing different
things.
- The highest level of change
is where you reinvent yourself by transforming who you are.
Coaching has its greatest
impact when you are taking on either level two or level three change.
10. How
should I choose a coach?
- Look for great chemistry.
The chemistry between you and the right coach will feel right almost
instantly.
- You should be in action
almost immediately.
- You should sense that your
coach has something in his or her life that you want in yours.
11. What
about experience and credentials?
Coaching became popular as
a profession starting around 1996. Anyone with three or four years of
experience was part of that first wave of new coaches. Anyone with five
or more years experience was one of the industry's pioneers.
The International Coach Federation provides credentialing at two levels.
One, the Professional Certified Coach (PCC) requires a bit over a year's
experience plus training. The other, the Master Certified Coach (MCC)
requires four years experience and additional training.
In addition to these credentials, each coaching training organization
provides its own credentialing.
12. Should
I only look for coaches who, like you, are pioneer Master Certified Coaches?
Like in any profession, credentials
and experience do not guarantee excellence. Likewise, youth and inexperience
do not preclude it. When considering a coach, consider experience and
credentials, but do also consider the chemistry you feel with that person.
13. What
else should I look for?
If the coach has less than
three years experience, ask about their background before coaching. Look
for experience or training that is relevant to coaching. When it comes
to coaching, the "genuine article" is someone with significant relevant
experience and training. Even though business people can get a bit squeamish
if a coach stresses the personal side of coaching, it is the integration
of professional and personal viewpoints that distinguishes coaching from
consulting. If you're interviewing someone who says little about the personal
side of coaching, you may be talking with a repackaged consultant. Not
bad, but not a coach.
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